Even though I am not perfect and I don’t always get it right. I have always been pretty good at giving good, sometimes even great advice. Try me! Go ahead, ask me a question. Of course these questions are moderated, but pretty much anything goes (within reason).

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   Hi, I have been watching a lot of Secret Life of the American Teenager. There is so much talk about sex all the time. I am 16 and I am still very confused as if it ok to have sex or not. Can you help me?

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   Hey, I was wondering if you can help me with a slight issue I have. Here’s the situation, I’m an 18 year old student studying abroad while my parents and brothers still live where we grew up and my sister has migrated to the States with hopes of making a better life for herself as well as her family. Because of my move abroad I’ve developed a much stronger love for my family especially my brothers. The bond between my brothers and I is much stronger than it ever was before, however I can’t say the same for my sister, its almost as if I don’t have one, when people hear me speak of her they’re shocked to hear I have a sister. I find this very disturbing because I’m a very family oriented person and sisters are supposed to be, as they say ‘as thick as thieves’ but she’s always busy and the things I’m supposed to be comfortable talking to her about I’m not, I would rather tell my friends or something, which isn’t bad but she’s supposed to be the first person I should think about to talk to when something happens. To some extent I am to blame because we don’t keep in contact as much as we should but when I try sending emails the response I receive isn’t exactly satisfying to me. I just don’t understand why we don’t have that bond that I do with my brothers because we’re so much like in the things we like but I don’t think she realizes. Do you have any idea I can try to atleast to get closer to her because I really don’t know what to do, I feel like I’ve run out of options. Joliel